Personality and Dating Apps: Who You’re Swiping Right On and Why

We all know the drill when it comes to dating apps: swipe left, swipe right, and hope you match with someone who "clicks."  But have you ever stopped in your swiping tracks to think about why you swipe the way you do? Why are some profiles an instant "yes" while others get a quick left swipe without a second thought? Your Myers and Briggs personality type could be the key to understanding your swiping patterns—here’s what's getting your attention and why.

INFP: A Hopeless Romantic in Search of a Deep Connection

Ah INFPs, the hopeless romantics and dreamers! On dating apps, you aren’t for the surface-level stuff—you’re looking for someone who isn’t afraid to show vulnerability and express their deepest, innermost thoughts. You’ll swipe right on profiles with poetic or introspective bios, references to books or causes you care about, or photos that feel candid and unfiltered. 

Swipe Right: Hopeless romantic who believes in serendipity, late-night talks and creating memories that last a lifetime. 

Swipe Left: I may not be the best cook, but I’m a pro at whipping up the perfect Uber Eats order for a Netflix and chill night. Satisfaction guaranteed. 

INTP: An Intellectualist Looking for a Like-Minded Mind

When swiping on dating apps, you, INTPs, are not just scanning for the looks—you’re looking for the brains. You'll swipe right on someone who's into science or history, has a quirky sense of humor and loves deep, thought-provoking conversations. And if you come across a profile that mentions the same niche hobbies or interests—like an obscure computer game or theoretical physics—you’d be totally head over heels!

Swipe Right: Philosophy buff pondering life’s big questions over a cup of espresso.

Swipe Left: Living for the weekend! I’m always at the beach with a piña colada in my hand or out partying with friends.

ISFP: A Free Spirit Seeking a No-Strings-Attached Relationship

As an ISFP, you are drawn to profiles that feel real and give off spontaneous, easy-going and “artsy” vibes. You'll swipe right on people who aren't shy to show off their personal flair—think photos with an artistic touch or candid moments that capture them "in their element." As far as intentions go, you want to meet someone who prefers going with the flow (at least, initially) when it comes to dating—no strings attached.

Swipe Right: Swipe right if you're looking for someone who can make a killer lasagna and serenade you with questionable singing skills.

Swipe Left: Not here for games. Looking for someone who’s ready for a serious relationship.

ISTP: An Adventurer Seeking a Fun, Non-Clingy Partner

For you, ISTP, dating is all about finding someone who shares your interests, enjoys a good adventure, and can handle your independent streak. So, if a profile gives off an adventurous, action-oriented, and self-sufficient vibe—whether it's through pics from solo trips or mentions of physical, hands-on hobbies—you’ll likely swipe right.

Swipe Right: Amateur Lego builder. All-right cook. Aspiring snowboarder.

Swipe Left: Looking for a special someone/a rave buddy. If you're not ready to dance till dawn every night, we're not a match!

INFJ: A Principled Idealist Looking for True Love

The superficial nature of online dating doesn't sit well with you, INFJs, but you may still give it a shot because you can struggle with making those deep, meaningful connections you long for in real life. You gravitate towards dating profiles that give off an aura of authenticity, emotional depth and a genuine desire for connection. You'll swipe right on bios that talk about values, passions, and maybe even overshare a little.

Swipe Right: Old-school romantic with a modern twist. Believe in chivalry, good conversation, and making a connection beyond the swipe.

Swipe Left: Just looking for someone to grab drinks with and Netflix & chill on weekends.

INTJ: A Strategic Thinker Looking for a Partner With Purpose

As an INTJ, you want to meet someone who can keep up with your drive to succeed and make things happen. You take notice of profiles that highlight career achievements, big goals and plans for the future—basically, anything that shows the person is thinking ahead and striving for success. Also, you hate wasting your time, so you appreciate bios that are straight-up about what the person is looking for.

Swipe Right: Not here to waste time. Looking for someone to build a future we’re both proud of.

Swipe Left: Passionate about rom-com, matcha and days with zero plans.

ISFJ: A Caring Nurturer in Search of a Stable, Mature Partner

As an ISFJ, you’re drawn to profiles that give off a vibe of emotional maturity, responsibility and strong relationships. If a profile shows the person is surrounded by close-knit relationships and enjoys quiet, meaningful activities, it will definitely catch your attention. Think photos that capture quality time spent with loved ones or bios that mention cozy, introverted hobbies like cooking, reading, arts and crafts, etc. 

Swipe Right: Gym goer by morning, Netflix binger by night. Looking for someone to join me in both workouts and chill-outs.

Swipe Left:  I love hitting the clubs, going to music festivals and always being on the go. Looking for someone who’s down for late nights and never saying no to a good time.

ISTJ: A Traditionalist Looking for Certainty and Stability

If there’s one type who definitely isn’t into “seeing where things go”, that’s you, ISTJ. You like knowing where you stand and value stability in all aspects of life, including dating. On apps, you’re into profiles that feel down-to-earth, mature and no-nonsense. Think straightforward bios that tell it like it is—stuff like what the person does for living, what they get up to on weekends, and what they’re looking for.

Swipe Right: I work in finance and spend my evenings enjoying a coffee and good book at a local café. Weekends are for catching up with friends and exploring new restaurants. I want to meet someone with a potential for something serious.

Swipe Left: Looking for someone to share in my never-ending adventures. #YOLO

ENFP: A Curious Soul Seeking a Meaningful Connection

As an ENFP, you carry this curious blend of carefree sociability and an intense desire for meaningful, emotional connections with others. When you’re swiping on dating apps, you’re looking for someone who brings good vibes and whom you can connect with on a deeper level. And if you find a profile with photos that capture laughter and genuine moments, that’s a major turn-on for you!

Swipe Right: I’m into stories and I want to hear your story. What makes you, you? What are you passionate about? Let’s grab brunch and share each other's stories over some good food. 

Swipe Left: I’m here for a fun time, not a long time! Let’s get some drinks and see where the night takes us…

ENTP: The Quick-Witted Debater Looking for a Sparring Partner

Often dubbed the “devil's advocate,” you, ENTP, want to find someone who can keep up with your fast-paced, curious mind and loves a good debate and thought-provoking conversations. You’re drawn to profiles that hint at wit, sense of humor and out-of-the-box thinking. And if you come across a bio that mentions offbeat hobbies like escape rooms or improv comedy, it’s pretty much an instant right swipe!

Swipe Right: Classy with a touch of sassy. Fluent in sarcasm and always up for witty banter. 

Swipe Left: Into long brunches and lazy afternoons by the beach. Wanna join me?

ESFP: A Social Butterfly Seeking Fun and Excitement

As the ultimate life-of-the-party type, you, ESFP, tend to move fast on dating apps, scanning for profiles that match your love for socializing and high-energy, stimulating experiences. So, if someone’s profile shows that the person does lots of fun and social activities—whether it's through photos from music festivals, wild nights out with friends, or just fun, spontaneous moments—they’ll definitely catch your eye.

Swipe Right: I love hitting the clubs, going to music festivals and always being on the go. Looking for someone who’s down for late nights, and never saying no to a good time.

Swipe Left: I love a quiet night with a good movie and takeout, no drama, just chilling and good food.

ESTP: A Thrill Seeker Looking for Action and Adventure

You don’t do boring, and neither do the people who catch your attention on dating apps. As an ESTP, you’re all about living for the thrill, and that’s what you look for in a dating partner. You swipe right on profiles that scream fun and excitement—think epic travel shots or mentions of wild hobbies like motorcycling or skydiving.

Swipe Right: Swipe right if you love hiking, motorcycling or just testing your limits.

Swipe Left: I am all about Netflix, long brunches, and spending lazy weekends doing absolutely nothing. Let’s just see where it goes.

ENFJ: An Inspiring Leader in Search of a Meaningful Connection

When scrolling through dating apps, you, ENFJ, are drawn to profiles of people who want more than just small talk and casual hangouts, and who are passionate about things that matter. And if you come across someone who’s actively involved in things like social justice or environmental causes, that’s a major win for you.

Swipe Right: Environmental advocate passionate about sustainability and eco-friendly living.

Swipe Left: I like to keep things simple—Netflix and chill are my weekends. Every weekend.

ENTJ: The Ultimate Go-Getter in Search of a Power Partner

The ultimate go-getter—that’s you ENTJ! When it comes to dating apps, you aren’t here to waste time—you take romance seriously and are looking for a serious partner who wants to grow and level up together. So, profiles that project confidence, ambition and a strong sense of purpose will definitely catch your attention. Think photos of the person showing off some type of award or medal or bios that hint at a career-driven mindset.

Swipe Right: Passionate about my career and always up for a challenge. Seeking someone with ambition and a good sense of humor to conquer the world together.

Swipe Left: I’m pretty easy-going and down for whatever. Hit me up if you don’t have plans this weekend.

ESFJ: A Caregiver Looking for Lasting Love and Connection

Casual flings? Not your thing. As an ESFJ, you want a partner who’s in it for the long haul and who will always be by your side. You’ll swipe right on people who are on the same page about it and share the same values. Bonus points to those who show that they're not only social but also grounded in close-knit relationships and community—think photos of happy group moments or family gatherings.

Swipe Right: Looking for a reason to delete this app… and hopefully, you’re it! 

Swipe Left: Not too interested in anything serious right now, just want to see where things go. In it for a good time!

ESTJ: A No-Nonsense Realist Seeking Clarity 

As an ESTJ, you approach everything you do with a clear goal in mind, and dating is no exception. You want someone who doesn't beat around the bush and is straightforward about what they want. So, you’d swipe right on bios that are upfront about their intentions—whether they want a casual fling or a serious relationship, as long as it lines up with what you want (and, of course, if you’re into the person, too!). 

Swipe Right: If you are over playing games and looking for a serious relationship, let’s meet for a vibe check, shall we?

Swipe Left: Life’s unpredictable. So, let’s meet and see what happens.